It was July 2, 2005, when Maryscott e-mailed me to tell me she was starting a new site, and to invite me to be on its front page. I had expected she'd be starting her own place; 2005 was a moment of flowering in the liberal blogosphere, especially as Markos had just announced his contempt for the "sanctimonious women's studies set." But I hadn't expected to be asked to the front page.
And yet, I really didn't expect - in any way - to find and become part of what was, for a while anyway, a truly wonderful and even revolutionary community.
I have met some truly amazing people here. People who shared my basic political outlook, but also more - who inspired me to write and think and feel more deeply, more strongly, than I had ever done.
Before MLW, I considered myself a historian with an interest in writing about contemporary politics. But through MLW, I came to see myself as part of a bigger community of people who were determined to remake American society, who were going to share their own experiences and insights with the goal of empowering each of us to participate in that greater process of renewal. People who accepted me for who I was, instead of trying to find reasons to deny me a voice. MLW, at its best, was a place where people were encouraged to share themselves, instead of being like so many other blogs, where political discussion was a contest to be the most pure or the most dedicated.
Somewhere along the line - I believe - that was lost. But it never quite went away. The experiences I've had here in sharing some of my most personal visions, hopes and dreams, and finding people who wanted to share the same, and who felt the same sense of empowerment and catharsis at sharing it that I did - that is something I'll never forget.
I've made lifelong friends here, people I know that I'll have in my life for decades, people who I will know and love and will help grow, just as they will with me.
MLW did all of that, provided the chance for such positive and powerful relationships to grow and thrive.
Not every relationship grew and thrived. Some that I thought were the strongest and most long-lasting turned out to be the most fragile. And that's another valuable set of experiences I've had here on MLW. I have long been fascinated not just by people, but how people interact with each other, with human relationships. Through MLW, I have not only met fantastic people, but learned more about how to relate to and interact with such people. Happily most of those interactions were positive, but some were very negative - and yet I'm stronger and smarter as a result even of those negative ones, though I'm so much better for the positive ones.
And so, that is my Question of the Day:
What is the most significant thing you've learned, or experienced, here at MLW? What will you always remember this place for?