First of all, I have other more important responsibilities than your account, believe it or not. My world doesn't revolve around your needs. Especially on a weekend at home dealing with a toddler and a newborn.
Second of all, I've got a quick trigger for users who violate the copyright rule, and none of them pulled a headline stunt like you did last week. The fact that I gave you time to cure the defect means that I've given you far more leeway than I've given anyone else pretty much *ever* on the site. It's not my fault you don't know how to read either the warning we sent, or the rules at the top of the diary "submit" page you must scroll past every time you write a diary.
In any case, since you're pressing, I'm tired of the drama and don't want any more of it. And really, I'm surprised you still do given that you just recently claimed you were done writing diaries on Daily Kos and then continue to write stuff like this:
(He linked me to the DKos comment version of my MLW Initial Reaction Post.)
I never declared any emnity (sic) with you. I've never said anything about you publicly. I've minded my own business. The insults have been a one-way street. Unfortunately, that probably won't change moving forward.
markos
Thank you for responding. I had no expectation of you dropping everything else, Markos. But since this has been a rather prominent topic for the past 24 hours, I guess I assumed you might still have been dealing with it on some level.
As for your lack of responsibility for my not having caught the request to edit, I don't argue with that. I suppose I assumed you would not hold a simple mistake against me and uphold a ban that, when all is said and done, was based on that simple mistake and a technicality that is violated every day by countless others with impunity -- including, often, your own front pagers.
Ask yourself, if Hunter had posted, verbatim, what I had -- would you even have bothered with it? Or would you have dropped him en email and said, dude, you just quoted a whole article? You know full well that "article" doesn't even qualify under the fair use rules -- it's too short, and it's on the page where MSNBC gives permission for use with full attribution.
The comment to which you link -- frankly, I see nothing at all wrong with it. It is an honest appraisal and critique -- no more, no less. It consists of my observations and initial response to being banned by you, and reflections on what DKos seems to me to be. "Power corrupts?" You're damned right it does -- and I can find thousands of people who would unabashedly agree that since your entry into the halls of power, Daily Kos has become corrupted. By endless rules about minutiae, by gangs of bullies running wild throughout the discussions with impunity, by punishments applied unevenly and with an obvious tilt toward the approved of and the disapproved of.
Hell, I don't know whether I survived as long as I did at DKos because I was popular and therefore an asset regardless of how annoying I was -- or because I was popular and therefore to ban me would have meant an uproar, so the ban had to wait until I was good and loathed by a large enough and loud enough segment of the population to make it seem like a popular decision. I know which one I believe, though.
As for your being tired of the drama and done with it -- well, now we've got to the heart of the matter. And I take issue with your claim never to have engaged with me; every time you've ever come into a discussion of a diary of mine and expressed disapproval, it's been like declaring open season on me. Your obvious disapproval of me and hostility toward me have been taken as an explicit CUE by the general population, and every single one of those people who had ANY reason at all to dislike me felt free to vivisect me in the comments section of any diary I posted thereafter.
I simply cannot believe that you are unaware of these realities. The fact that you have so obviously disrespected me and treated me as an utter nonentity ever since that Washington Post article came out is a large part of the reason why the atmosphere at DKos became so hostile toward me so quickly. Lest you forget the sequence of events, I never said ONE negative thing about you until long after YearlyKos. But when I did -- and it wasn't even insulting, it was merely a QUESTION about your advertising and about transparency and the possibility of the appearance of impropriety when blogs accept advertising from politicians -- just a goddamned TOPIC for discussion -- the loathing came out of the woodwork as if it had been saved up, waiting for just such an event.
I'm not even going to get into the blogroll purge, and how disingenuous and insulting your "explanation" was, and how any and all criticism of that decision was subject to outright public mockery by you and Hunter and Atrios.
The fact is, I never asked for anything but goddamned respect and acknowledgement from you as a fellow blogger and an equal. But as it turns out, despite your cries of egalitarianism in the blogosphere, you really DO believe that some are more equal than others. It would have cost you nothing to be NICE to me; instead you chose to be dismissive and rude and ultimately hostile.
I'm just baffled it took me as long as it did to react negatively.
So, you have what you seem to have wanted for a long time; a technically unimpeachable reason to ban me. And all the people who take you at your word and never bother to follow the actual events themselves will naturally believe you and regard me with disdain and pity -- just another disgruntled ex-Kossack with a grudge and a blog.
But I think you've made a tragic and stupid mistake. Many people have paid attention to this ongoing psychodrama and don't agree with your tactics or your attitude; and I'm not just referring to the Cult of MSOC, either. There are plenty of dispassionate observers out there, and if you think this "banned for a bogus technicality that was an admitted mistake Markos won't forgive because he WANTED to ban her" bullshit isn't as obvious to them as it is to me, you're even more shortsighted than I thought you were.
Evidently not a student of Jimmy Durante's advice.
Somehow I feel as if, despite this bitter and pitiful end, I ought to thank you. But frankly, though I did once owe you a debt of gratitude, I've long since paid that off. Not only did I acknowledge your role in my becoming the blogger I am today, I spent a great deal of time and energy in the first year of MLW's existence actively discouraging "Markos-bashing" and DKos-bashing." PRECISELY because I thought I owed you that level of respect. And I did.
And it would have taken so little to retain that respect. A kind word here and there. An acknowledgement of my mere existence, for chrissakes. Maybe a little less open mockery of me in discussions. You know, the basics. Too much to ask, evidently.
So, no thanks from me. I guess this is it; might see you at YKos, though.
: )
Maryscott